Dear (Future) significant other.

1 January 2015

Dear future significant other.

I know we don’t talk much and I am sad to admit that I don’t think about you too often either. I am trying my best to rather just live for the moment. It’s not an excuse and I can’t ignore you, because you are the one who will be ultimately living out my future.

Every new year we are bombarded with “New year’s resolutions” or the question: “What are your goals for this year?” And then very often we ask ourselves the question: “Where would I like to be in ten years?” (Not that I ask that for myself very often.) I told you already that I try to live for the moment rather… But I decided to write you, just in case I would mess up your future…

Here are a few things that I would like you to be in “my future”. You know, the one you are living in now..

1. Don’t be stupid. Don’t do silly stupid things. Just be yourself and don’t crave other’s attention. I have gotten over that a long time ago and I can sure tell you, life is better that way.

2. Be happy. Just be happy with the here and now. Be happy with the people in your life, be happy with those who left your life, be happy with those that came back, be CONTENT!

3. Live a life of being grateful, When you are grateful for the air in your lungs and the roof over your head you will be happy and content. I learned that being grateful for the little things in life can make the worlds’ difference on how you approach every day.

4. Do not live a life of un-forgiveness. Forgive those who hurt you immediately and get over it. Most of the time they do not even realize that they hurt you and even if they do, still forgive them, not because it makes the situation ok, but because you need to move on and grow from it.

Those are just a few pointers that I learned from my past “significant” other and currently it’s working for me.

Take these notes to heart and I am sure we will do fine in the future.

Keep up the good work.

Your “significant past” other.

P.s.  Whatever you do, and in everything you do, do it as if unto the Lord. Ultimately He is the one who should be glorified through your words and actions.

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